Irving Hernandez Jr.

United States Army Staff Sergeant Irving Hernandez Jr. was killed in action on July 12, 2006, during a combat operation while serving in Iraq. 

Irving Hernandez Jr. was born and raised on the Lower East Side of New York City. His early life was marked by adversity, yet he remained positive and determined. After losing his father at a young age, Hernandez assumed added responsibility, working diligently to help support his mother and sister. Through these experiences, he developed a strong work ethic and an inner resilience that shaped both his personal life and his service to others. Hernandez Jr.’s strong sense of duty and commitment to family were evident from an early age and would continue to guide him throughout his life. 

Hernandez met his wife, Susan, while they were both in high school. Although they did not immediately take to one another, fate seemed determined to keep bringing them together, as they shared nearly every class during their senior year. Before long, the two became inseparable, spending their days having lunch together alongside their close group of friends and Hernandez’s cousin. In a playful act that would change both of their lives forever, Hernandez’s cousin told each of them that the other had a crush on them, even though neither had actually said it. The harmless fib sparked a connection that quickly grew into a lasting love story. During their senior year, Hernandez and Susan welcomed their baby girl, beginning the life and family they would build together as high school sweethearts. 

Motivated by a desire to provide a better life for his young family beyond New York City, Hernandez enlisted in the United States Army in August of 1998. His leadership and character left a lasting impression on those who served alongside him; many of his soldiers remain in contact with Susan, often sharing stories of the impact he had on their lives. One soldier credits Hernandez for taking him under his wing and helping shape the soldier he is today. His First Sergeant in Iraq described him as highly knowledgeable and noted that he led his squad with professionalism and confidence. During his military service, Hernandez was awarded the Bronze Star and the Purple Heart, honors that reflect both his valor and his sacrifice. 

One of Susan’s most cherished memories was on her last birthday with Hernandez, when he asked her to marry him all over again, a beautiful reflection of the enduring love they shared throughout their lives together. Hernandez especially loved celebrating Christmas with Susan and their children. No matter how much snow or ice covered the roof, he would climb up to decorate the house with lights, determined to make the season magical for his family. He loved spoiling his children, wanting them to have everything he never had growing up. 

Growing up in New York City, Hernandez was the only one among his close group of friends to join the United States Army, stepping forward at such a young age with the goal of building a better life for his family. His loss was devastating not only to Susan and his children, but to the entire community that knew him as a caring man, devoted husband, loving father, and proud Puerto Rican. Even today, the weight of his loss is still deeply felt by those who knew and loved him. Hernandez’s memory continues to live on through the stories shared by his family and friends, the values he instilled in his children, and the love he gave so freely throughout his life. Each year on his birthday, Susan and their children gather together to share his favorite meal, tell stories about him, and wish him a Happy Heavenly Birthday. His flag and photograph remain proudly displayed in their home, where his presence is still felt and his memory is spoken of every day. 

United States Army Staff Sergeant Irving Hernandez Jr. is survived by his devoted wife, Susan, and their beloved children. 

The Tunnel to Towers Foundation has paid off the mortgage on the Hernandez family home through the Gold Star Family Home Program.