Steven Anthony Fraas

United States Air Force Master Sergeant Steven Anthony Fraas passed away on August 8, 2014, from non-Hodgkin lymphoma attributed to toxic burn pit exposure during his service in Iraq. 

Fraas grew up surrounded by a loving family and enjoyed an active childhood filled with camping, riding dirt bikes, taking trips to the lake, and boating through the Santa Barbara Harbor. He was the kind of friend who was always there when someone needed him, offering support and a helping hand. As he grew older, Fraas knew he wanted to serve his country. He was eager to challenge himself, see the world, and protect the country he loved.  

Anyone who met Fraas could feel his strong presence and natural sense of protection. He was a protector long before he joined the military. In high school, Fraas noticed a student who was frequently bullied and made a point of standing up for him. One day, when the bully grabbed the student’s books and threw them to the ground, Fraas helped pick them up. As he did, he noticed the words, “My friend, Steve,” written on the cover of one of the books. That simple moment meant so much to the student, and it stayed with Fraas as well, reflecting the kind of person he was: someone who made others feel seen, valued, and protected.  

Fraas met the love of his life, Julia, while they were both serving in the Air Force at Incirlik Air Base in Turkey. Their first real connection came while they were partners in a game of Spades. They were completely locked in, winning every game they played together. In that moment, they both felt they would be just as locked in throughout life. Five months later, they were married. Fraas told Julia early on that he did not think he would live much past 30. He was 31 when he passed. Looking back, Julia reflects that he never took a single day for granted and lived every moment to the fullest. Although none of us knows how much time we have, Fraas’ life is a reminder to make the most of every day, love deeply, and live life to the fullest. 

Today, Julia is grateful to live near Fraas’ family. They spend time together often, continuing to share stories and memories that keep his spirit alive. Each year, they honor Fraas by taking their annual sunrise trip to Lizard’s Mouth, where they raise a toast to the remarkable man he was and the lasting impact he continues to have on those who loved him. 

United States Air Force Master Sergeant Steven Anthony Fraas is survived by his devoted wife, Julia, and their beloved daughters. 

The Tunnel to Towers Foundation has paid off the mortgage on the Fraas family home through the Gold Star Family Home Program.