Shawn C. Mette

United States Air Force Technical Sergeant Shawn C. Mette tragically lost his life on June 20, 2010, due to service-connected cancer.

TSgt Mette began a distinguished career of service when he enlisted in the military on October 1, 1992, driven by a profound commitment to his country. His dedication quickly became evident during his time stationed at RAF Lakenheath, England, where he was selected as Airman of the Quarter. While there, he excelled in his role in Public Health within the Medical Group, helping to protect the health and well-being of service members, their families, and the base community through disease prevention, environmental health, and health promotion initiatives. Throughout his service, TSgt Mette earned numerous awards and commendations recognizing his exceptional performance, courage, and dedication. These included the Air Force Outstanding Unit Award with Valor Device and six oak leaf clusters, the Joint Meritorious Unit Award, the Air Force Commendation Medal, the Air Force Achievement Medal with one oak leaf cluster, the Air Force Good Conduct Medal with four oak leaf clusters, the National Defense Service Medal with one service star, and the Global War on Terrorism Service Medal. Each of these honors reflects not only his skill and professionalism but also his unwavering commitment to his fellow service members and to his country. In addition to his military accomplishments, he earned his Associate’s Degree and was pursuing his Bachelor’s Degree in Physical Therapy.

Driven by a desire to work abroad, Nelia traveled to Korea in November 1999 for a training opportunity. Soon after, she met her future husband, TSgt Mette, and their connection quickly grew. In February 2000, Nelia learned she was expecting a precious baby. TSgt Mette, who had been considering leaving the military to pursue further studies, chose to continue his service, supporting Nelia throughout. She returned to the Philippines in April, and TSgt Mette traveled there in August to marry her. After nearly two years apart, Nelia joined TSgt Mette in the U.S., where he was stationed at F.E. Warren Air Force Base in Wyoming, and they began their life together as a family.

TSgt Mette created so many wonderful memories for his family. Despite his illness, his priority was always making sure the children were happy. He loved bringing them to theme parks. At the time, his children did not fully grasp the nature of his illness. Nelia remembers their son asking, “Mom, why is my dad changing?” His body changed dramatically, especially during chemotherapy and radiation treatments; by the end, he looked much older than his age. Throughout his treatment, his family was always there with him. The memories of their unwavering presence beside him will always be cherished in their hearts. Nelia fondly remembers how much TSgt Mette loved buying new outfits for their children. On almost every payday, he would come home during his lunch break with new clothes for them. Those small, thoughtful gestures were simple expressions of his love—moments Nelia deeply cherishes and misses.

His compassion extended beyond his own family—he volunteered for two years as “Rocky,” the school mascot at Lakenheath Elementary School, bringing joy to the children and community until illness prevented him from continuing. Nelia is intentional about preserving and sharing these memories with their children, especially their daughter, who was only three, and their son, who was eight, when TSgt Mette received his initial diagnosis.

TSgt Mette’s legacy is defined not only by his honorable service and sacrifice to our country, but also by his kindness, generosity, and compassion. He was known for his warmth and friendliness, especially within the Filipino community that Nelia and TSgt Mette cherished. When they left England to come to the United States for his treatment, the Filipino American community they belonged to was heartbroken. TSgt Mette was a devoted provider and a loving husband who consistently placed his family first. To honor her husband, Nelia remains deeply committed to preserving TSgt Mette’s name and legacy. She visits Florida National Cemetery several times each year, returning on Thanksgiving, his birthday, Memorial Day, and Veterans Day to spend time in reflection and remembrance, ensuring he is never forgotten. She also honors him through meaningful volunteer work within their community, continuing the spirit of service he lived by. Nelia loves to cook and often holds close the dream TSgt Mette once shared—that after retirement, they would open a small Asian American restaurant together. Though he was not able to see that dream realized, she carries it in her heart and hopes one day to bring it to life in his honor. Through her devotion, her service, and the love she pours into her family, Nelia allows TSgt Mette’s spirit to continue guiding and shaping the family he cherished so deeply.

United States Air Force Technical Sergeant Shawn C. Mette is survived by his devoted wife, Nelia, and their beautiful children, Marco and Skylar.

The Tunnel to Towers Foundation has paid off the mortgage on the Mette family home through the Gold Star Family Home Program.